Trust yourself

 
Why compare yourself with others? No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.:)

This quote is so damn true =)
Why do humans always have to compare themselves with others?
Can't they ever be satisfied with who they are?

WHY ARE WE LIKE THIS?? !
That's the part of me I hate the most 

Honestly, everyone did that once in a while, comparing ourselves with others and feel bad about ourselves. But why? Why jealousy always comes around? 
 I'm really curious to know! ==

The thing about comparison is that there is never a win.=)
How often do we compare ourselves with someone less fortunate than us and consider ourselves blessed?
 - I did ! but it was not that often :( -
More often, we compare ourselves with someone who we perceive as being, having or doing more.
-yeah - 


We are always becoming more.
Who you are today is a result of the decisions you made yesterday. =)
We decide and then we decide again, and the direction is always toward expansion.
It is our human nature to expand!

So, when you catch yourself comparing yourself to another, stop for a moment and re-direct the thought. Instead of submitting to the temptation to compare yourself to someone else, ask yourself a few questions, instead ,

 "What are your wins this year, compared to last year at this time? How has your life improved? How have you improved? What have you done recently that you never thought you could do?"

"What negative behavior have you stopped engaging in, that you never thought you could quit? What positive behavior have you been engaging in that up until now, you have resisted?"

"How are you doing more of what you said you were going to do and shown up more consistently for your own success?"

In other words," how have you continued to become a new and improved version of yourself?" :)

That’s the stuff that counts. Comparing ourselves with someone else is an inaccurate and irrelevant measuring stick.

I learned that today ! =)
Stop making yourself feel unsatisfied with yourself !
That is never the point !
Love who you are
That's the best part of being you :D

You're pretty

You're smart

You're talented

You're kind

You're sweet

You're lovely

You're amazing

You're awesome

You're beautiful

You're blessed

You're loved

You're hardworking

You're simple

You're sensible

You're caring

You're honest

You're charming

You're lucky

And most of all, You're YOU =)

See, saying all these words do make you feel better about yourself :D

God bless :)